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Shift Into a Higher Gear

Better Your Best and Live Life to the Fullest

byDelatorro McNeal

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Book Edition Details

ISBN:9781523093731
Publisher:Berrett-Koehler Publishers
Publication Date:2021
Reading Time:11 minutes
Language:English
ASIN:N/A

Summary

Roar down the highway of life with Delatorro McNeal II, a peak performance guru who’s all about shattering the status quo and revving up your potential. If you’re done with the humdrum and ready to embrace the adrenaline of your dreams, this book is your ultimate pit stop. With the heart of a biker and the soul of a coach, McNeal's teachings interlace motorcycle metaphors with transformative life strategies, urging you to break free from fear-based inertia. Each chapter, a gear shift in itself, propels you toward excellence with engaging exercises, poignant stories, and compelling challenges. Whether you’re dreaming of personal triumphs or career victories, McNeal’s insights offer the ignition key to turbocharge your life's journey. Strap in for an exhilarating ride where the road of self-discovery meets the thrill of limitless possibilities.

Introduction

Every morning presents you with a choice that will define the trajectory of your entire day: Will you settle for the comfortable rhythm of routine, or will you dare to accelerate beyond your current limitations? The reality is that most people operate their lives like they're driving in first gear, never experiencing the exhilarating power and potential that exists when they shift into higher performance modes. This isn't about making dramatic, overwhelming changes that burn you out. Instead, it's about discovering how small, strategic adjustments can create profound transformations in every area of your existence. Whether you've been coasting through certain aspects of your life or feeling stuck in patterns that no longer serve you, the principles ahead will show you exactly how to break free from mediocrity and step into the extraordinary life you were designed to live. The road to your best self isn't found in massive overhauls, but in the courage to make incremental shifts that compound into remarkable results.

Small Shifts, Big Changes: The Power of 1% Better Daily

The most powerful transformations don't happen through earth-shattering changes, but through the consistent application of small improvements that compound over time. This concept mirrors how massive locomotives are powered by steam that's created when water reaches just one degree beyond 211°F. At exactly 212 degrees, something magical happens - the water transforms into steam that can power incredible machinery. Consider the story of how this principle transformed someone's approach to parenting. When the author became a father, he made one small but significant shift in his parenting philosophy. Instead of simply providing for his daughters' needs, he decided to be intentionally mentoring and coaching them toward greatness. This wasn't about becoming a perfect parent overnight, but about consistently investing in their goals, teaching them lessons from successful mentors, and coaching them through both victories and challenges. This single decision elevated his parenting from basic provision to what he calls "steam-powered, locomotive, ninja-dad status." The shift didn't require massive changes in his schedule or completely restructuring his life. Instead, it was about approaching each interaction with intentionality and purpose. The results were transformative not just for his daughters, but for his own sense of fulfillment as a father. The practical application begins with identifying where you need that crucial one-degree increase. Start by committing to getting just 1% better every single day in one area that matters to you. Whether it's loving yourself more deeply, forgiving others more readily, or investing more thoughtfully in your relationships, this small daily improvement creates sustainable change. Unlike dramatic 50% or 80% improvements that are difficult to maintain, the 1% shift is achievable and repeatable. This approach recognizes that the most meaningful changes are those you can sustain over time, creating lasting transformation rather than temporary bursts of progress.

From Fear to Faith: Kick Back Your Kickstands and Roll the Throttle

Every single day, two powerful forces battle for control of your thoughts, feelings, and actions: fear and faith. The warrior that wins each day is simply the one you feed the most. Your positive thoughts and decisive actions nourish faith, while negative thinking and inaction strengthen fear's grip on your potential. Understanding this dynamic is crucial because fear operates like a motorcycle's kickstand - it keeps you stationary and prevents forward movement. The author learned this lesson powerfully through a scene from "The Karate Kid Part III," where Mr. Miyagi tells his injured student, "It's OK to lose to your opponent, but you must not lose to fear!" This moment crystallized a fundamental truth: fear doesn't just limit our actions, it claims ownership over our dreams. When the antagonist Mike declares "I own you," he represents fear's ultimate goal - to make you believe you're powerless to change your circumstances. What happened next in both the movie and the author's life demonstrates the power of shifting from fear-based to faith-based living. Daniel-san gets back up and uses the techniques he's learned to win the match, just as the author has repeatedly chosen to "roll the throttle" by taking action despite his fears. Whether it was performing in church plays as a child, pursuing fraternity membership in college, or leaving a secure university job to become a full-time speaker, each decision to feed faith rather than fear opened new levels of possibility and fulfillment. The transformation begins by recognizing that fear is simply doing its job - trying to keep you safe. However, while fear can protect you from genuine danger, it often prevents you from experiencing the success and joy you deserve. The cure is taking what the author calls "CIA" - Consistent Imperfect Action. This means moving forward even when you don't have all the answers, even when you're not perfectly prepared. Remember that most of the fears holding you back are learned behaviors, which means you can just as easily learn faith. Start by identifying your current fear patterns, then replace each fearful thought with a faith-based declaration and take one small action toward your goals.

Your Rightful Position: Taking Control of Life's Motorcycle

The fundamental difference between living powerfully and living as a victim of circumstances comes down to positioning. Most people sit backwards on the motorcycle of life, focusing on their past while missing the controls that could propel them forward. When you position yourself correctly, you gain access to everything you need to navigate successfully - the handlebars for direction, the brakes for control, and the throttle for acceleration. This positioning principle is beautifully illustrated through the story of Disney's "The Lion King," a franchise that generated over $11.6 billion because it captures a universal truth about taking your rightful position. Simba must overcome his doubts about his qualifications to become king, just as the author's brother Mike had to overcome his own limiting beliefs about his worthiness for business success. Mike was experiencing what many high achievers face - impostor syndrome that makes you focus on perceived disqualifications rather than your inherent capabilities. The breakthrough came through a simple conversation about feeding stray cats. The author helped Mike realize that just as a hungry cat doesn't care about your car, your wardrobe, or your bank statements - it just wants good food - customers don't care about your perceived limitations. They simply want solutions to their problems. This "da cat don't care" principle liberated Mike from self-imposed restrictions and allowed him to step into his rightful position as a successful insurance and financial services professional. Your rightful position is one of leadership, authority, and capability, regardless of what others might consider your disadvantages. Like the lion who rules the jungle despite not being the fastest, strongest, or smartest animal, your power comes from believing in your inherent worth and acting accordingly. Begin by shifting your physical position - stop looking backwards at past mistakes and failures. Instead, face forward toward your vision and goals. Next, identify seven things you've been viewing as disqualifications and reframe each one as a unique strength or perspective that sets you apart. Finally, take your rightful position by showing up daily with the confidence and intention befitting the king or queen of your own life's domain.

Goal Getting Mastery: From Setting Dreams to Living Reality

The difference between people who achieve their dreams and those who merely dream lies not in goal setting, but in goal getting. Anyone can write down aspirations, but champions understand that manifestation requires shifting from wanting to walking, from dreaming to doing, from information to implementation. This transformation demands more than positive thinking - it requires a systematic approach that turns possibilities into realities. The author's journey from concept to completion of his reality TV show exemplifies this principle in action. What began as an inspired idea took 839 days to fully manifest - from initial concept through casting, filming, securing distribution deals, crowdfunding post-production costs, and finally seeing the show air on major platforms. This wasn't just about persistence; it was about applying what he calls the "Eight R's" of goal achievement: making Room for new possibilities, identifying compelling Reasons, gathering Resources, creating a Road map, establishing Rewards along the journey, leveraging Relationships, maintaining unwavering Resolve, and seeking Real experiences. Throughout those 839 days, the author had to continuously apply each element. He made room by clearing his schedule and priorities, stayed motivated by his reasons for wanting to impact the speaking industry, gathered resources including videographers and locations, followed successful reality TV models, rewarded himself at milestones, leveraged relationships with producers and distributors, maintained resolve through rejections and setbacks, and immersed himself in real TV production experiences. This systematic approach transformed an abstract dream into a tangible achievement that will exist forever. Your path to goal getting mastery begins with selecting one significant goal and applying all eight R's systematically. First, make room by identifying what must be removed from your life to accommodate this new pursuit. Clarify three compelling reasons why you must achieve this goal - your "why" will sustain you when challenges arise. Next, inventory your existing resources and create a visual representation of your achieved goal. Study others who have accomplished similar objectives to develop your road map, then establish meaningful rewards for progress milestones. Leverage your relationships by sharing your goal with people who can support or connect you with opportunities, maintain unwavering resolve by deciding in advance that failure isn't an option, and seek real experiences that immerse you in your desired field. Remember, you're not just setting goals anymore - you're getting them.

Summary

The journey from where you are to where you want to be isn't measured in giant leaps, but in the small, consistent shifts that compound into extraordinary transformations. As this exploration has revealed, "The biggest room in the world is always room for improvement," and that improvement comes through your willingness to shift from comfort to growth, from fear to faith, from excuses to action, and from settling to stepping into your rightful position as the architect of your own extraordinary life. Whether it's committing to 1% daily improvement, choosing faith over fear, positioning yourself for success, or systematically pursuing your goals, each principle offers you a practical pathway to the life you've always envisioned. The most important shift you can make right now is moving from reading about these concepts to actively implementing them. Choose one area of your life that's been calling for elevation, apply the 1% principle, kick back any kickstands of excuse or fear that have been keeping you stationary, take your rightful position facing forward toward your dreams, and begin the systematic pursuit of one meaningful goal using the eight R's framework. Your extraordinary life isn't waiting for perfect conditions or complete preparation - it's waiting for you to shift into that higher gear and begin the exhilarating ride toward everything you're capable of becoming.

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Shift Into a Higher Gear

By Delatorro McNeal

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